998 UNANSWERED PRAYERS. BUT THEN…THERE’S THOSE TWO.
My prayer life got rattled recently.
A Facebook friend, who enjoys some of my Songsermons [TM], sent me a Youtube link (pasted at the end of this article). In the video, a songwriter/singer, accompanying himself on the piano, sang a couple of his original songs … “Nothing Fails Like Prayer” and “Beware of Dogma”.
My FB friend said when he heard this performer, he was reminded of me, aptly describing the gentleman’s products as “atheist song sermons”.
Lyrics for both songs were potent, but even more so because the performer was a former pastor. There are not many things more effective than a person who once believed one thing, then converts to the opposite. Someone who has “been there, done that”, and determined it to be empty of value, makes a powerful statement.
The “Dogma” song was an extended canine metaphor … a mixture of fun and warnings about the dangers of, and damages done by, religious dogma. The song ended with a humorous line about “Please clean up after your dogma.”
Some Christians, myself included, would agree with many of the points made in this song.
But, it was his first song in the video (“Nothing Fails Like Prayer”) that affected me the most. It made me start to look at my own prayer life, and the seemingly sparse results.
As I’m prone to do because of my mental makeup, my mind went into something like a blend of math, logic and oversimplification.
Suppose I had prayed a thousand prayers in my life.
Suppose about half were unanswered because they were mainly “I want this … I want that…”
Suppose about half were prayers for things that were likely to happen anyway … a place to live … food to eat … safe drives to work and back … not hit by robbers … my kids safe at school, etc. A person could argue that these prayers had no affect, since the outcome was so likely anyway. He/she could argue that most people who live simply by the law of averages get the same rate of success.
But, letting these two general eliminations stand ‘as is’ for the moment, there were two prayers that broke from the pack of a thousand.
They happened in 1978, within a couple weeks of each other. They both involved our baby girl born in January of that year.
She was crying. Non-stop. We tried all the normal things, but we were unable to give any relief to her. Before heading for the doctor, we opted to pray (in ministering mode, for those who understand that). In both cases, during the prayer, her crying suddenly stopped. She then cooed, played, napped … all the things happy babies do.
So, out of my 1,000 prayers, two were answered. As much as I was shaken by the “Nothing Fails Like Prayer” song, I had two successes that I could not ignore.
Regarding my blend of math, logic and oversimplification:
1- Are ‘half’ my prayers still unanswered?
No. Whatever the actual percentage was in the beginning, the currect percentage is less. I’ve grown a little wiser over the decades.
Getting results in one’s prayer life increases with maturity regarding what to pray for.
James 4:3 nails it: (KJ) “Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.”
These are the “I want this … I want that…” prayers. When I first started praying, few were answered, for the reason given in James. My success rate has improved over time, and it’s no mystery why.
2- Do I believe that praying for things that are likely to happen anyway is pointless?
Hardly. If the Bible turned out to be a farce, then I received whatever benefits come from positive expectations. If there is any damage done, it is from having wasted some time.
If the Bible turned out to be true, then a couple of things:
A- A string of successes with the ‘little things’ bolsters confidence regarding the ‘big things’. *
B- I have an advantage over the “law of averages” approach to life. I have not only blessing and additional protection**, I also have means of recovery from setbacks.***
3- Have I had other clearly answered prayers?
Yes, but none so instantly connected to the prayer.
Someone who has “been there, done that” works both ways here.
Yes, a pastor-turned-atheist makes a powerful statement.
And yes, my confidence in prayer got briefly rattled.
But recalling my prayer history has boosted my confidence to a new level. I suppose I reaped the benefit of obedience to Psalm 103:2b (KJ) “… forget not all his benefits.”
Apparently unlike the former pastor, I had hard evidence to fall back on. As Acts 4:16 says, (KJ, condensed a bit) “…indeed a notable miracle hath been done…and we cannot deny it.”
———–footnotes of a few scriptures———————–
* Romans 5:3b-5a (KJ ) “…knowing that tribulation worketh patience; 4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope: 5 And hope maketh not ashamed;”
** James 1:17 (NIV) “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”
Psalm 68:19 (KJ) “Blessed be the Lord, who daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation.”
2 Peter 1:3-4 (KJ) “According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue: Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.”
*** Prov 24:16a (KJ) “For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again:” (And ‘no’, seven is not the limit of times this can happen. It’s a figure of speech.)
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